Category Archives: Obituaries

1LT Thomas Michael Martin, R.I.P.

His father and mother (who live in San Antonio), and his fiance (re-deploying to Iraq as a medevac pilot)–are all Army. He left behind a web site, and a lot of friends.

Curiosity’s punishment

Sometimes I wish the Internet wasn’t quite so comprehensive. Even the most private people often wind up baring their souls in its electronic pages. Of course it helps not to be too curious, though that is sometimes hard to do. As we grow old, they say, the present recedes while the past marches forward. Thus a little curiosity, abetted by a search engine exploration on the name of an old girlfriend who ditched me for another guy many years ago, turned up the good news that they were still married, but the sad news that they had lost their only child. Clearly, curiosity punishes as well as rewards. I’m now haunted by their tragedy, knowing more than I really wanted to.

Harpist Gary Primich, R.I.P.

I never caught one of his performances, but I should have because I always admired the harmonica as a musical instrument and anyone who could play it well. I often tried, as rock pianist Ben Folds might say, but I was genetically-inclined to be a trumpet player. More or less. Michael Corcoran, writing Primich’s obit in the daily, makes me want to buy his 1995 Texas blues CD "Mr. Freeze," which I will do here in a minute or two. Especially like Primich’s chosen epitaph: "He changed his oil every 3,000 miles."

UPDATE: Corcoran is following the story, awaiting the medical examiner’s report, but drugs, specifically heroin, is suspected as the cause of death at such a young age, just forty-nine.

MORE: Primich’s memorial service is Oct. 28. 

Commenter missed

As inconvenient as it apparently has been for some of my rare but appreciated readers who have not noticeably returned, the TypeKey comment security system has done wonders for my productivity. I no longer have to waste time deleting scores of comment spam which were steadily rising into the hundreds every day. I gave up on trackbacks last year for the same reason, though I wasn’t getting any trackbacks, anyhow. But Tom is one rare reader whose vanished comments I especially miss. A fellow OC-504er, who spent his time in Vietnam with the 1st Cav and now commands his local VFW, he was clever enough to track down my sister-in-law’s funeral Aug. 6 in Indiana and surprise us by showing up, an hour or so away from his own Ohio River town. Hope you can eventually figure out how to make the registery work, Tom. I’d like to have you back.

Maj. Thomas G. Bostick, Jr., R.I.P.

"Thomas Bostick was born in San Diego and moved to Llano after his father, Thomas G. Bostick Sr., ended his career in the Marines. Bostick joined the Army Reserve while at Llano High School, and after graduating in 1988, he made the Army his career."

Mrs. Johnson

The Dallas Morning News has a good, free piece on her. If you want the most, the daily is the place to go, though they’re still hiding it all behind free registration. She was the only person in the world they referred to on second reference as Mrs. So if you want real candor, you should probably go elsewhere.

Lady Bird dead at 94

The Grande Dame of Texas Democrat politics, though she rarely took any but a cheerleader’s part, will be the subject of eulogies for days to come. Here’s an early obit. The daily is hiding its main story behind free registration, which is too bad, but the sidebars are available. I suppose one is expected to be nice about the dead until the body, or the ashes, are in the ground, and I expect the media will do that, in large measure. But there are many ways to look at Lady Bird, some of them not at all complimentary. A few things she did and more that her deceased husband, LBJ, did to her and in her name. Remains to be seen if they’ll see the light.

UPDATE  Jau, at Just Muttering, wonders what I am implying. She might well ask. Mostly I’m referring to details in Robert A. Caro’s "The Path to Power, The Years of Lyndon Johnson, Vol. 1" about LBJ’s political rise. He is known in Texas as the pol who stole an election to the US Senate. Caro shows how he and Lady Bird got rich, by using his position to barge ahead of others in getting radio and television licenses–the basis of their wealth. She acquiesced in this, making her a co-conspirator, if you will. Nobody ever charged them with wrongdoing, but it seems clear that he would never have received the licenses if he wasn’t in Congress at the time. What he later did to her is also in the book, cuckolding her (if that term can be applied to a woman) and generally treating her badly in front of others, all of which she again tacitly approved by not leaving him. Sort of a Hillary character without the political ambition. Shyer, though. But you’re not likely to see any of this in the MSM, even after her funeral. So, if you’re interested, read Caro’s book.